It makes sense. I struggled with communications with my husband the whole time we were married. It's a lot easier to try & make sure he understood what I was telling him or spend the time trying to make sure I understood him than it is when dealing with the health care people. But if they know you are ASD, they should understand the need to make sure communication is clear.

Maybe end with a "did I understand you correctly......" repeating what you think they told you. That way if not they can clarify better.

Shoot, we all have problems talking with health care professionals ASD or not. I find the need for communicating that way with them myself.

Lol...I have a physicians assistant at my pain specialist from China. Sweetest lady but communicating is not easy....very similar situation