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Originally Posted by Echos Myron
Thanks Ellahmae, how interesting that she is uncomfortable with it. Has she said that to you, and do you know whether she uses it with other clients. T said he doesn't generally use touch much which makes me feel kinda nice!
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She has talked about how I am the only client it feels right with (still wondering if it's her needs getting met as well since I've been called the daughter she never had.... another story). She has mentioned how she has clients try to hug her and come in her space and she has to tell them no because it makes her uncomfortable (she doesn't say to the actual client it makes her uncomfortable but goes the why do you feel that way, blah blah blah route). It does make me feel special and nice that it is natural and doesn't bother her to do it with me. I read people ridiculously well so if she was uncomfortable I would know it, and she's not. I would say 75% of the time she reaches out first. I am the only one she touches in therapy or is allowed in her 'space'.
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