I self harm and my dad doesn't seem to understand. I told him it was like an addiction - and he's telling me to "stop it right now, because you can." He also called me a "stupid *****" and "silly cow", because I self harm - "you're going to be a ****ing messed up adult. you're messed in the brain." I told him it was similar to his smoking, but he just yelled at me more. I don't really want to stop self harm - like some of you will understand, it's an addiction... I want to see a psychologist but... what do I do?