She does call herself my mom but due to our last discussions on unethical t attachment to clients and having to deal with her attachment feelings on her own time I feel she is managing it properly and allowing me to get what I need. We have a different relationship then all of her other clients as we've discussed it and I've seen her with other clients (before my session after theirs and I can see the difference, nothing unethical said or done in public just her mannerisms and body language) and there is a distinct difference. I do agree with you, it is hard to work out and it's something I bring up in session often. I would trust what you know with him and do what you think is best for you. I would discuss it with him for a couple more sessions before making a decision. However, if I had the decision and it hadn't naturally occurred it probably wouldn't be what it is now and I would have missed out on a lot of healing because I wouldn't have allowed it.