I call B.S. on this. It is because you are posting on porn sites and allowing every stranger on FB access to your page that you attract weirdo sleazebags.You have invited them in. In fact, no decent man will be attracted to you at all if they see you do that; they will run the other direction so fast you may not even be aware they were there in the first place. If you want to find decent men, you have to behave decently, have healthy boundaries that show self-respect, and get involved in activities and people who don't frequent the sleazebag circuits. This is on you. Until you change YOUR behaviors, who you are attracting will remain the same.

Do you want to find decent men? Lock down your internet presence, including FB. Get off the porn sites. Only allow people on FB that you personally know or have a legitimate association with. Get involved in life OFF the internet. Get involved in organizations, clubs, hobbies, etc. of people who are interested in activities and interests that aren't sex-oriented, booze-oriented, whatever-oriented that tend to attract the sleazebags of the world.