((((((((((((((((( jinnybaby ))))))))))))))))))

I read this before I left for my trip and wanted to reply but just plain ran out of time. I'm so sorry hon.

I know it's so difficult going through the motions of therapy and the family learning and trying to grasp what is going on here. It's all a work in progress. Yes there are many times when one has to go backwards in order to continue to move forward. But it will happen and you will all move forward. Remember that you are all moving at different rates and times. The old habits of lashing out die hard sometimes. Everyone has change they need to make in order for the family unit to heal and come together again.

Fear not my friend...you are all working to that wonderful time when closeness and understanding will be the top of the order and this muck will be but a memory.

Sending you and your family much strength and love!

xoxox
sabby