Hi Fuzzy,

I agree entirely!!!!
But if you don't mind if I "fill in some gaps" too...........
Not only are you NOT a "horrible useless" person...........you ARE an incredibly caring, astute, insightful, understanding, empathetic, supportive person............
And not only do you NOT deserve to be punished and shamed..........you DO deserve to be treated with kindness, respect, validation, caring.................

Alison