Okay so it doesn't sound like your needs are being met ...
Seems as if she turned your first suggestion down calling it "weird".
Have you thought about bringing up with her what it is that you really want?
You don't need to go into details of how she doesn't turn you on etc...
Just more along the lines of you're wanting to be more adventurous in the bedroom and try out a few things. Maybe there's something else you two could try.
Or how about trying a low key approach at first in the bedroom and see how she responds. If you're into fetishes maybe there's one that she'd be willing to go with. But not necessarily all fetishes (I know that applies for myself - there are some I'd stay away from).
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