My last therapist I had for 7 years was a lot like this. She didn't like it when I would ask her questions about herself and would turn it back on me like why did I want to know etc. I could call the office if I was in crisis but I never knew when she would call back. Usually she would recommend calling the crisis line or go to the emergency room. I didn't have her email or cell phone number. We didn't text. We did hug after every session but it was basically just a quick hug nothing super comforting except maybe once or twice. I did get to know a lot about her by working with her for 7 years. She slowly revealed stuff as it pertained to our sessions and I also googled her a ton on the internet and found out quite a bit. Despite the fact I really liked her and could talk to her about anything also.