I've been in this situation with her before, and I've brought it up. I just didn't have it in me to bring it up today, to start something with her. Not too long ago she asked me to not use text with her anymore. She was feeling controlled by her devices, and was asking everyone to tone down the texts. Deep down I didn't like that at all...just because she has gradually taken enough away that used to be ok, and here's something else. But today her phone wasn't silenced, and whenever I'd hear that little chime, I knew I would catch her lean over and glimpse at the phone out of the corner of my eye.

Since this has come up between us before, and she made that statement about her devices recently, it made me think she's doing this purposefully. But then I get frustrated with myself that it seems like I'm always thinking something is a mind game, and deliberate. But it seems it's either that, or she's just completely clueless! Just wanted to vent...