Are you serious about 300 to 500 messages a day? When I talk to friends we only have one message a day. Perhaps you are expecting too much of him? I don't know. I'm an older lady, though, and maybe younger people do that. I find accepting things the way they are always works out. I tend to get jealous at times, too, and know how that makes us hurt deep inside. Like we are not the special one any more. But if you really don't like the way things are find another friend that makes you feel special.