My T does give me special treatment as in she lets me contact her while she is on holiday, which she has said she doesn't allow other clients to do. I am also allowed to contact her whenever I want to, either by text, phone or email. I email quite alot and might text her when in crisis but never phone her out of the blue although I'm sure she wouldn't mind. She has said she would move mountains to speak to me.

I feel it has been helpful to me for the most part. I think T does it because she knows how insecure I am and how I never believe that people care about me that much so she is trying to make me see how much someone can genuinely care. I am aware that it may not be conventional by way of boundaries but seems to be working for me right now.

T also makes me tea, offers me other drinks and asks me if I want to stay a bit longer if I'm having a hard time. I usually don't take her up on staying longer though.