That is so much to go through. I worked in home health and know how frustrating it can be.

There is a company called Amedisys that provides home care and is an excellent company. The best I ever worked for and my main reason for saying this is that they put patients first, no matter what. I think the level of respite type servics they supply varies but they are a national company so you may be able to find it in your area.

I worked for many companies and that is the only one I'd give a recommendation for. (I do not work for them now and am not trying to advertise). There were a lot of times that people who'd had home services through another agency were shocked when they saw what we did compared to the other companies.

Do you have an adult daycare that you could use for respite during the day? The one I'm familiar with picks people up and drops them off at the end of the day. People really enjoy it and it helps families a lot.

I hope venting helped and that things start to work more positively for you.