Sorry I think I didn't make myself clear because a few people seem to have misunderstood. *I* cancelled on him, because I found out it was his birthday. He did not cancel on me. I canceled because I have lots of heavy emotions going on and I don't want to rain negative emotion into his special day. I am upset with him because he doesn't seem to care that I canceled, or is perhaps glad, or that's at least what I am projecting.