[QUOTE=brillskep;5078648]If you trust him, you could explain to him that you inadvertently found out when you were checking out your options for a therapist. It seems clear to me that you were not stalking him and he should understand the need to check out your options before you choose a therapist. It might be helpful to discuss with him what you told yourself about having a difficult session on his birthday, as it might help you to understand your process, better your therapeutic relationship, and work toward your goals.

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I honestly think he would dismiss me as a client if he thought I had looked something personal up about him online. I know that sounds over the top but he is so very boundaried.