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Originally Posted by brillskep
If you trust him, you could explain to him that you inadvertently found out when you were checking out your options for a therapist. It seems clear to me that you were not stalking him and he should understand the need to check out your options before you choose a therapist. It might be helpful to discuss with him what you told yourself about having a difficult session on his birthday, as it might help you to understand your process, better your therapeutic relationship, and work toward your goals.
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I honestly think he would dismiss me as a client if he thought I had looked something personal up about him online. I know that sounds over the top but he is so very boundaried.
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I think that would be unprofessional if he did that, but it may be. You're the one who knows him. But still, that would be unreasonable. How are you expected to pick a therapist unless you can get to know that he's out there an know his credentials? We often do that on the Internet these days. Sorry if your therapist isn't open to you even looking up therapists online.