I'm a little perplexed, and wonder if you'd mind clarifying something for me.


You've stated you're not into cheap casual sex and will only have sex within the confines of a committed relationship.

However, (physically) you're more than ready to have sex as soon as you and a guy start seeing each other.


What's the difference between what you usually do and casual sex? Because essentially you don't know the guy very well either, and just because he says he wants a relationship doesn't mean it will be one...


Anyway, just wondering about this as it doesn't look different at all, except the casual sex ppl are usually upfront and honest about it.

Regarding this current thread, remind yourself that you want mind blowing sex within the confines of a meaningful relationship

And meaningful relationships take TIME to develop.

Jumping into bed early on is the same as casual sex and that's the opposite of what you state you want.