Incase you don't know the definition, I've taken the liberty to provide it.


con-tra-dic-to-ry



[kon-truh-dik-tuh-ree]


adjective


1.

asserting the contrary or opposite; contradicting; inconsistent; logically opposite: contradictory statements.
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There is no judgment in this word, so it's not automatically unsupportive, I am not throwing it around, I am simply stating a fact, while using the word accurately.


When I declared I hated olives and then suddenly claimed to love them, that was a contradiction. People didn't understand it and I explained the change. It wasn't a negative reflection on me, it didn't mean I'm a liar or someone was judging me by pointing out the contradiction.


If you attach negative connotations to this word, then that is your issue, not mine. I can't just make up a new word that's more pleasing to your ear.


Now, in case I was somehow unclear, your view, attitude, actions or perceptions regarding sex have been contradictory. Plain and simple.


BUT you've expressed why that is (you were naive and your perceptions have changed etc) so I now understand perfectly clearly yes.


And I have thanked you for it.


My apologies for thinking we were on the same page.


I take no issue with you, I hope you know that, but I have to bow out of your thread in fear of unwittingly using any more words you take issue with and then being called out as unsupportive because of it.


I sincerely hope you and this guy figure it out, you deserve love and happiness (and earth moving sex) just like the rest of us.


Take care