I think depression and things like that can be frustrating for others to "deal" with. My T once used the phrase, "Not with that attitude!" to show me how there wasn't a whole lot she could do to help me if I didn't help her too.

How would you like your T to react? I do that with myself all the time, ask myself "How would you like to feel in this circumstance" -- usually I'm feeling "appropriately" or, if I think about it can think of ways to help myself feel better or do something to distract myself for a bit, etc.