Yes, husband is different. That I can't attest to, never had one I am super close with my sister too. I got diagnosed with something unrelated day before yesterday and she never responded. She sent me a pic of her son, and complained about her daughter, and just ignored me. LOL. We are close, but empathy ain't her game, and I know it. But she is important to me, so I accept that failure of hers and find what I need elsewhere.