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Old May 21, 2016, 11:41 AM
BudFox BudFox is offline
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Originally Posted by puzzle_bug1987 View Post
I think it borders on unethical behavior when a therapist tells a client they are doing something for them they don't do with any other client or very rarely. That is so bizarre and weird and wrong. Why do they do this? It seems to foster unhealthy expectations and beliefs on the part of the client, but the unhealthiness is actually owned by the therapist.
The unhealthiness owned by the therapist… I think that probably explains a lot. They are trying get needs met also, maybe covertly. With me and last T, it was a meshing of needs. I desired and worshipped her, which was her drug, so she fed me special treatment, which was my drug, and then I desired her more, etc etc.
Thanks for this!
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