I also have a high sex drive. I understand what you say about almost getting you into a dangerous situation. I would strongly recommend against getting physical early in a relationship. There are several reasons for this. It's important to take time to know that you're compatible with the other person on a deeper level. Sex without deeply felt mutual respect and emotional intimacy isn't much fun. It's a poor substitute for the real thing. Until you really know the person well you can't know their past history and so you could put yourself at risk of contracting an STI. Honestly it isn't worth the risk! Finally unless you have a strong foundation the relationship is unlikely to last.