You've got a hell of a lot on your plate and we all reach our threshold or breaking point. There's only so much that you can give in this relationship. Yes, I understand his depressive part and not wanting to do much. But he still has a responsibility to you too. So if he's up on the computer and not helping you around with chores ... well that's selfish. This has been going on for 3 years now. He sounds like he needs a bit of a wake up call to me. No wonder you're sounding a little frustrated. Who wouldn't be. Tampering with meds is certainly not helping his cause.
Any possibility you can go with him to one of his therapy sessions (if he sees a therapist, that is?)
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