That is the part that gets me too. He is not seeing a therapist anymore. He always tries to self diagnose or use the Internet to diagnose himself. He reads what others are doing and thinks that will work for him. I have been looking around at apartments or renting a house. I am limited because we have kids. We moved to my husbands hometown 3 years ago. So not only dealing with my husband and his deal, but new place. I didn't know anyone except his parents. I don't want to move our kids out of the school zone. I just wish he would get it together. But 3 years ugggg.
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Originally Posted by Crazy Hitch
You've got a hell of a lot on your plate and we all reach our threshold or breaking point. There's only so much that you can give in this relationship. Yes, I understand his depressive part and not wanting to do much. But he still has a responsibility to you too. So if he's up on the computer and not helping you around with chores ... well that's selfish. This has been going on for 3 years now. He sounds like he needs a bit of a wake up call to me. No wonder you're sounding a little frustrated. Who wouldn't be. Tampering with meds is certainly not helping his cause.
Any possibility you can go with him to one of his therapy sessions (if he sees a therapist, that is?)
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