I can't help you decide what to do definitively. I can say, from an outside perspective, that if a friend of mine had this many questions and this much anxiety going into a marriage, I would suggest she speak to her fiancé about it. He may be upset, but it would be better than putting both of you into a marriage where you feel as though you may be settling, feel obligated, or just plain have anything but certainty going into it. I think a lot of people feel nervous before they get married, but I don't think it's for reasons such as the ones you bring up.

I don't know about you and Scott being meant for each other, but I think he is something new and different, I think maybe he brings something to the table that Corey may not, and that is something to pay attention to. What needs to you have in a relationship? Are those needs being met? If not, can you live with what is not being met for the rest of your life?

I have found that falling in with a man who is there during some really traumatic times can feel like a very strong connection indeed, but the question then becomes is it the right connection you need in order to build a home and a life? I don't know; I didn't marry my guy.

Good luck, keep us updated.