I just want to know what my T would think I meant by the phrase “hooking up with random people.” I was talking to her about it a little last session and didn’t want to say what I really meant. I basically meant sex or sometimes just oral sex. But now I’m not sure if we are clear. I just struggle, especially in the past as a teenager, with sexual agency and alcohol and non-alcohol related risky sexual activity. But maybe my T just thinks I mean kissing since I’ve talked about “making out with random people” before.


She didn’t ask me any details, and I’m feeling nervous about next session. She used my phrase, "hooking up," when asking me about it but it could have meant anything. I guess “hooking up” and “making out” are supposed to be kind of vague and ambiguous. What would you assume I meant by it? Would your T understand? Maybe I’m not giving her enough credit, assuming a 50 year old woman wouldn’t know…