Yeah, I suspect she knows what you meant, especially if you've also used the term "making out." I always seem to just say "I was intimate with" or "H and I were intimate last night," which I generally use to mean intercourse and/or oral sex. Particularly if I'm talking to my marriage counselor, since I have trouble talking about sex with him, since he's a guy and I have some transference. Though I feel awkward talking about it with T, too, and she's female.