Thread: OK with failing
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Old May 22, 2016, 02:16 PM
Chyialee Chyialee is offline
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Originally Posted by TishaBuv View Post
We had that conversation a thousand times and still no change. So now I have decided to move on and he is really pissed. He really thought this torment was going to last forever. I swear I saw a twinkle in his eye today thinking he was going to get me to change my mind and stick it out with him once again. Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde! He really thought this was a game that I would play forever. How sick!
Oh no. How horrid for you, my friend. And how creepy...imo

Something my first T used say, and I've heard it elsewhere since:

"If you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always gotten." Truer words etc....
Seems as tho your H was counting on that, yeah? Just as Eskie's was all those years.

All my best wishes and support. Time to transplant the effort to somewhere with productive conditions; so -- GO YOU!

xo,
Chyia, proud of you
Thanks for this!
eskielover, TishaBuv