Hello HD: The Skeezyks is not particularly knowledgeable with regard to narcissism. So he probably cannot realistically be of much help here. But, many years ago, I left my family (parents primarily... I was an only child) behind. It's a long story & I won't go into details. But what I wanted to suggest here is that you simply look forward... no "calling them out"... no "educating family & friends"... just focus on healing yourself & get on with your life. It's just my personal opinion... nothing more... but to my way of thinking... to do otherwise is simply to get yourself hooked all over again. I wish you well...