Agree with the Skeezyks ... I walked away from my toxic family of origin years ago and focused all my energy on my own healing and recovery ... We can't change them, but we can get healthier and not be like them.
I ended up legally changing my name, quitting an 18 year career and relocating so they'd quit trying to contact me and meddle in my affairs.
This was not an easy thing to do, but looking back after 23 years of healing and recovery, it was absolutely the best thing I ever did for my physical and emotional well-being.
Wishing you the best on what's going to be a tough but worthwhile journey of discovery!
Sincerely,
Pfrog!