Sunny, the lack of consistent cooking is a huge issue. It is mainly because I am working full time, studying and let's face it, my emotional issues + ADD make it difficult for me to do much consistently.

I definitely provide for my son. I cook basics on Sundays. I'm just not the suzy homemaker type. I do like to bake though!! I started scrapbooking but can't keep up with it at the moment.

What hurts me about T is that he knows how sensitive this topic is and he's always thought that my husband should pick up the slack in this area and that my dad was kind of wacky for thinking this...now he changed his mind I guess???

That is what hurts.