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Hey Almeda,

I'm so sorry you are hurting right now. And right before your Dad comes, T's timing is pretty crummy. I would be upset too & definitely hurt.

Remember how separate from T I felt a few weeks ago? I'm beginning to realize that even if he doesn't get it exactly 100% of the time, that doesn't mean I have to hate him. (Well, not all the time anyway).

Do you think this might be an opportunity to work through those other relationships you discussed?

I hope you can bring these different perceptions of the relationship to his consciousness...

Take gentle care.



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I do remember Sister and am glad that you and your T are working through it together! We were doing that too. Not too long ago, he was the closest person to me now he couldn't be farther away...

I've gone through a range of emotions over it from being scared, depressed, crying, reaching out to him, him rejecting me and how I am responding to his rejecting me...believe me he sees what is happening to me...he doesn't care.

Now it's come to this...and I feel so sad...