Sometimes the truth" hurts more than is necessary. And sometimes it isn't even the truth. Perceptions vary. But if you've smoked weed, it isnt' any of their business IMO.

I don't think 100 percent honesty over every little thing is ALWAYS either possible or healthy. But being lied to sucks.

My mother used to talk about "white lies". But then she lied to me about huge things....:~(

Discrimination sucks.

***** em, I agree. I've found if I bend over backwards to be 100 percent honest with the providers they screw me over. They screw me over anyway.

I might change my mind about some of this tomorrow.

I think it's time to go back to posting umbrellas for a while...