Hi friends,

Thanks to all for your responses.

Yeah Perna, I would like to continue 2x per week. Money is an issue but I am squeezing every last nickel out of the food budget. Damn, they can eat pasta all week,huh?

Pinksoil, the concept of self care has been a consistent theme in my therapy. It's a hard lesson to learn, isn't it?

Sunny, I was the one who asked for the extra sessions. It was difficult for me to ask, but T immediately said, ok let's go Tuesday, Thursday. So, he has never been the type to stick to some preconceived notion. I just had to be the one to ask! T said it was a form of self regulation. The pressure to go back to 1x per week is from me, internally, the budget is tight at home! At this point I would give up cable tv for T but my kids might get rid of me! T has never mentioned it.