I skimmed your original post and this is my 2 bits because I'm fixing to divorce for the fourth time.

Yes and no.

Behind my one that loved is a bunch of unloving ones. I get hit with "why did we marry her? The *****"... and so on non stop. We have more haters then supporters like 100 to 1.

I truly feel that I'm totally like non-relationship lke, or even a one night stander.

It is what it is. Whatever.

Thats just me/us, just go okay.