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Originally Posted by Artchic528
I'm only human, and I have needs. One of them is satisfying my monstrously high libido. I almost let it get me into a dangerous situation (I was lucky that the guy stopped communication altogether) and now I want to tame it, if possible so as to not let it take me over and confuse this current guy I'm talking to. I guess I need a way to keep a hold of myself and not rush into being intimate right away despite my body screaming for that intimacy. In other words, I want to think clearly, with my brain, and not my libido.
How do I go about this? Do I distract myself? Keep busy? I don't want him to think I'm not interested though, so I can't keep it completely quelled. I need some sort of way to lessen it's pull on me I guess, but not to eliminate it completely.
Any suggestions?
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I say this with all seriousness. If your libido is as high as you say it is, are you masturbating? Do you have toys to help you? I am a firm believer that a healthy sex life includes masturbation, and if you are simply abstaining between boyfriends, that could explain why you are jumping to get in bed with someone.
Again, saying with all seriousness, and not meant to be offensive.
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