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Old May 23, 2016, 11:28 PM
WrkNPrgress WrkNPrgress is offline
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Ok, well. Here I am again. I searched this thread out because it happened again.

Same necklace. Same time of session; in the evening.

I know it's ridiculous but every time I've seen her wearing this pendant— a small medallion kinda thing — she ends up taking it off mid-session. I really like the pendant. I get that maybe it's a bit heavy and perhaps annoying but I can't help but wonder, why is it my session that she seems to realize she doesn't like wearing it any more for the day?

Does she put it back on later or is it just that time of day she gets tired of it or is it something about our sessions that makes her selfconscious about this necklace? Do I make her nervous? Does the subject matter trigger something uncomfortable for her? Is she catching herself self-soothing and does that so she's not distracted or distracting?

I will add that the session was fairly positive and I was in a good place though dealing with difficult stuff.