I just realized it's been days since I was online here; I feel like I posted this just last night.

Thanks to all of you who gave me your experience. I'm still wavering. I don't go to my T regularly anymore, so it would be a special scenario just for my husband and I to work on some specific issues. I guess I'm worried because I feel like we have different issues we're concerned with - I've mentioned what I'm concerned about to him, but it has to do with him and his challenge with communicating anger/frustration. He doesn't seem to want to deal with that. He's more concerned with working on where my mind/heart goes during depression - I feel like he wants some answers about how to 'fix' that.

So I'm not really sure there's much point to going. He wants to avoid dealing with his expression of anger/frustration, and there's really not a 'fix' for BP or depression (he doesn't mind the hypo at all). So I have no idea why we would even go at that point...I guess I'm trying to figure out whether him hearing from someone else (a professional) that there's no 'fix' and that directing his anger/frustration about that at me is the opposite of helpful would be a possibility. And whether, if that were pointed it, it would make a difference in our dynamic or not.

Pondering...