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Originally Posted by prefabsprout
Well it maybe that age has something to do with it, idk for sure but think Artchic is younger than you and in her prime fertile years - it's completely natural to have a healthy drive in those years for both men and women.
For many people it does seem to lessen at 40+, that's nature I guess (baby making days either behind us or not going to happen generally speaking), depending on your perspective and expectations that can be a good or a bad thing. For you s4ndm4n it sounds like it's a welcome change.
Okay, back to Artchic, well there are natural ways and methods to lower libido but I get the impression you only want to put the breaks on for a short while right? In which case I'd recommend lots of outdoor exercise, the more vigorous the better - it burns off a lot of energy and frustrations.
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having a healthy libido has very little to do with the ability to make good choices, how casual sex doesn't lead to deep relationships. To be quite honest I have a pretty healthy drive sexually myself. I have never been one to be quick to go into sexual relations with anyone nor have I ever been involved in casual sex, not even in my 20s. My point being having a "healthy" sex drive does not render the person unable to say no to it ever. IT is and always has been purely a choice. IF one feels that they cannot say no, then there is a problem no matter how you look at it.