LT, your mc has always been non-shaming and accepting of your interest in his life, and it also has seemed that he's very mindful that your worry about him does not interfere with your own well being. If he's got a serious family situation going on, he will need to take care of that, but it doesn't mean he won't also be there for you when he's able to. He seems to have always come through for you before. Is it possible to contact your therapist about your concerns?