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Originally Posted by divine1966
Well the advice was given to artchic to distract yourself because she tends to obsess over things and many of us can relate and that's an advice given by professionals to have healthy distraction ( read s book or walk outside type of thing etc) . You started saying you don't need to be distracted from making bad decisions and you never had casual sex. It's good, but nothing to do with artchic. It's like if somebody asked where to apply for unemployment and I said I don't need unemployment . Although it is true it's not relevant as its not my needs that are being discussed l.
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My point about distraction using me was a point at people in general, if you need to be distracted from making a bad choice in relationships, perhaps you're not ready for that relationship. It wasn't about me. I understand the obsession thing very well. I do, but my point is, maybe a relationship isn't a good thing right now anyway. that's the advice I am giving.
I really dont' understand how you're missing the points I'm making and seemingly thinking I'm here to talk about me. but it doesn't matter. Thank you for your input.