I agree with waterbear. Can you write a list of questions and bring it in to therapy? I feel better if I get the boundaries established (mine and theirs) as soon as possible.

With CurrentT, I said something like, "this is how my previous T and I handled ...touch, phone, email, where we sit, etc. I find ...helps me best. What do you think about that?"

I doubt you would be bothering your T, that's what he's there for, right? And you are the client, paying him after all. My guess is he's been through this before.
You might be surprised.