I have a problem that I "pee" when I orgasm and I have been torn apart by my mother because she thinks I do it on purpose but I have incontinance. I have no control over it. Nobody ever asks me how I feel about it or whatever they just accuse me of doing it on purpose and all of a sudden I am a monster. I feel upset and alone because nobody asks me why the things I do or etc. They just attack me and to be honest I have never been taught how to defuse an argument when your being wrongfully attacked I just get defensive and start swearing at people. Only after the arguement is half way over and I get a clear head why I am angry and what she did that angered me I explain my feelings of hurt and anger when I am accused of the worst when nobody considers my point of view or feelings about it. I hate myself for it, I hate my body for it I hate my vagina for it but then to be attacked for doing it on purpose. When I have a medical condition is just the icing on the cake on my sadness, anger and helplessness about it. I can't do anything about it I wish I had no bladder or someone put a bag on my bladder so it does happen anymore but no one asks me how I feel its straight to who did wrong and attacking me. This is why this family is a failure and why no one understands or gets along with each other it is all accusations and assumptations. This is where this family needs to learn asservative skills for **** sake. Before I lose my head leave and put a restraining order on everybody