That must be so frustrating and like others I wouldn't be able to tolerate that. My T is also very bad at emailing and most of the turn she will not respond. I could be wrong but my experience has been that our expectations of our T sometimes conflict with what they have established as a therpeutic relationship. When a T gives you the okay to email I don't think they understand what it's like to be on the other side waiting for a response. I know that some of us grow more attached to our Ts than others but I guess the expectations should be outlined from the beginning so that there's no confusion. A T Taft gives the ok to email and doesn't have the time to respond for whatever reason then has either bad time managament is had a heavy load of clients which both are unacceptable especially when someone is seeking help and direction. I would bring your concerns to the next session. Wish you the best.
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