Are you washing your own laundry or having your mum do it?

Are you talking to a T about these issues?

With all the conflict between you and your mother just move already unless you like that she waits on you and cleans up after you. I can't say but it sounds like the two of you are in a codependent cycle and it would be good for both of you if you got a regular job and moved out.

Restraining orders mean you can't be in the same house and they are reserved for serious threats to life.