I just re-read my post & wanted to clarify my wording about love. Everywhere I speak about love I am referring to unconditional love......I do love family & friends. But that is at a much different level than unconditional love that I was trying to speak about. I never continue to try & force a relationship to exist because I unconditionally love the person. I let relationships evolve & they are what they are at the moment in time when they exist. Loving & caring about someone to me is that I will do anything I believe is right, to help family & friends. There are always people that I love/care about but in my existance, but I have never experienced such a deep love that would ever cause me not to look at a relationship for what it really is.