Hi all

Maybe you can help me cope with the situation I am in.

My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship for 8 month now. He is 10 years older, divorced with a daughter that also lives with her mom in another town than him or me.

Last week we had an argument at the telephone, I mean he had one with me. He said that his daughter won't be able to enjoy him as much as he enjoyed his parents, because the way he lives and the hours he works won't get him to 80 years old. And I asked, as a joke, with a smile on my face and a positive attitude why isn't he referring to me and our future children also. He got angry, we started to argue, he closed the phone and he is not answering my calls, messages, email sine 10 days ago. Nothing. This is one of the problems.

Actually, the second one is that in two days I am travelling for business in his town, but I forgot my key from his apart last time I was there and I don't know what to do. He knows I am coming, he knows I don't have the key, he knows I am staying 10 days, I asked him in the last messages how does he want us to do, if I should come to him or somewhere else. Nothing. Not a word. I call him like 2 times a day and maybe 2 messages on Fb, Insta and Whatsapp, and still nothing.

I don't know what to do, how to deal with it, especially what happened.

I should say that for both of us it was, or is, pure love, we cried when we first touched and hugged, we felt that everything bad form the past was washed away, we knew we loved each other from the first moment and we also said it to each other we no hesitations. we managed to travel enough to be together at least 2 times per month, we spoke many many times per day at the telephone, he send me videos with him saying i love you, we spoke until we fall asleep and first thing when we opened our eyes. he decided to move in my town without me saying anything, I wanted to quit my business to move with him, we felt like we owned our lives and we were happy and love each other very much.

I don't get it, what happened? How can I help him? Should I go in front of his apart and hope that someone else will open the gate so I can knock on his door? Should I insist with calls? Should I move on? I lack sleep, I smoke 2 pacs per day, I cry, I can't eat, I can't focus, I don't understand.

Can someone tell me what should I do? I can't cope with any choice now.