Yes, aare you old enough to move out? If so, do you pay rent? Is this then a case of her-house-her-rules? Are you able to contribute in return for some independence and the respect you need? If you already do so, you are right; you are entitled to some independence and observance of it. You are due respect anyway but I think expectations are different when one pays rent. Just my expectations as a parent myself who once had an adult child under her roof.