Good job being insightful and able to recognize what's going on. Good comment on understanding on intellectual level and having to make it a core belief, that's the hardest thing to do isn't?
Also great that you are working with therapist!

PS overall flirting or making sexual type of comments or jokes very often ( in fact in my experience always ) doesn't indicate any kind of deep interest in anyone. People flirt for no particular reason. I am not a flirt but many men and women are so unfortunately I see that this kind of flirting confuses others. "Oh she talked about sex" "oh he sent winks" "oh he/she flirted so that means they really like me" etc etc no it's not. in my experience if people are truly into you, they'd get to know you on a deep level first, flirt second.

Try to get busy with your life and not worry about getting messages from her.

Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk