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Originally Posted by divine1966
If he isn't responding for 10 days I think it's safe to say he is gone. Why though I am unclear. Perhaps he was upset that when he was sharing about his daughter you brought up that he needs to worry about his future children. That's typically not what parents want to hear. Or maybe he was taken aback you already have plans to have kids with him. Or maybe he thought you were trying to joke when he was serious about it. Certainly rather than vanishing he should have discussed it. But he didn't. I would not plan to stay with him and start a plan of moving on. Sorry that happened to you
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Thank you. I don't know either why, it's the most painful thing. Actually we were trying to have our own, it's not like I brought it up from nowhere. Since the begging we decided not to plan them, but also not to protect ourselves, that if it happens it happens. I planned to stay at some friends already. I wrote him today if I should stay somewhere else or not, and he replied that not at his place. So I am starting to believe it's over for him. Out of nowhere, out of the bloom, without why. Just not to stay at him. And that's why I think I didn't exagerate asking him about our future since we were planing our lives together and we were trying to have a baby. It hurts a lot, I just don't get it.